MOST IMPORTANT WEEKEND, EVER
In one destination weekend outside of your home environment, rapidly ignite your emotional and sexual connection, feel attracted to one another again, learn to use conflict to grow closer, and establish a bond with your partner that changes your lives forever using our research proven 9-step method.
- GAY Couples reTREAT -
Keep Sex Alive Long Term, Feel Understood, Open Up And Trust, And Get Unstuck From Bickering And Fights
When I was a gay teenager, I remember going to the Barnes and Noble bookstore desperately searching for tools to create a healthy, happy gay relationship. I wanted to start dating like my straight friends were doing.
I could tell that I had no idea how to connect to another gay guy. When I met my first boyfriend, Mike, I felt like I was giving in all the time. He worked at a supermarket deli, and had no interest in going to college someday. I was applying to universities and felt like we were not on the same page.
We just felt disconnected all the time.
Though he and I didn't last very long, things got better when I found support from other gay guys who knew how relationships work. I needed a community of folks I could relate to.
When I met my current husband, Alapaki Yee, our lives changed when we found practical tools and skills to implement in our relationship. We were both licensed therapists at the time (and still are), but we had to learn like all other couples ways to not let things build up. Through the Gottman Method, we discovered how to manage our conflicts around our cultural differences. Through regular practice, we built habits and routines into our weekly interaction that helped us to provide to one another's needs easily without causing conflicts. Having now been together since 2005, I'm proud of the life we built together, including our "challenging" German Shepard, Shadow.
In 2007 we created a supportive Institute for gay men to create awesome relationships. It's called the Gay Couples Institute, and is now the only relationship Institute in the world to publish outcome data on it's success rate.
As soon as we opened our doors, gay couples asked if they could fly to our office in San Francisco to do intensive weekends. The resources didn't exist where they lived, or they specifically wanted our proven 9-step method.
Our newest and most successful intensive experience is designed to get you out of your current element at home so that you can use new skills to make conflict productive, reignite your sex life, and build trust by connecting emotionally.
Everything from our 9-step "Gay Relationship Revolution Program" is included in just one experience, along with follow-up support to make the gains last long-term.
Join us in this amazing opportunity, and realize the relationship happiness you deserve.
To your future together,
Sam Garanzini, and Alapaki Yee
Cofounders, Gay Couples Institute
Certified Gottman Couples Therapists
How to deal with a partner who is constantly sucked into a phone or laptop?
If the 2020 pandemic has made gay people realize anything, it's that lfie is precious.
Your life, and your relationships are what you make of it.
When your partner has put you on the back burner, your sexual confidence has taken a blow, or you want to feel alignment on shared goals in your lives, then you can't wait for the opportunity to come to you.
You have to seek it out and make it happen.
In just one weekend, you can feel like best friends again, and start having fun together.
Here's how it works..
Stop Giving In / Create A Plan To Express And Get Needs Met
Easily deal with differences, wants, desires of the other person when one person isn’t interested in the same thing
Reverse the pattern that leaves you feeling taken advantage of or getting treated like a doormat
Move easily through situations where you are both afraid to say what is on your mind because you don’t want to hurt each other
Put together your own plan to balance being in a relationship with his (or your) needs for solitude
And more skills on tools specifically on expressing needs so you can stop giving in.
Stop Bad Arguments In Their Tracks By Making Conflict Productive Again
Develop a plan for responding to negative behaviors and annoyances that leaves you both feeling closer than you were before
Listen to one another in a way that creates true understanding of your perspective on the issue
Figure out when to work things out, and when (and how) to come back to it later when you'll be more successful
Stop justifying your reactions, and move past wanting to always be right about how you feel
And more skills and tools on healthy arguments and conflict that leaves you feeling closer than you were before...
Touch, Sex, Fantasy, Attraction
Discover how to stop hounding him for some intimacy when he never initiates
Address underlying fears that you're not good enough, or simply don't feel attractive
What to do to keep the spark alive and being 100% honest with your feelings
Create your own plan to keep your sex life fun and interesting
Feel comfortable bringing up potentially difficult topics like sexual attraction towards other men, and develop solid sexual trust
And many other topics around sex, fantasy, intimacy, and love...
Module 4: Creating A Bond Of Trust That Lasts Forever
Understand his words, and his actions, such that you no longer doubt what he's saying is genuine
Learn from positive real-life examples to address distracting outside issues like work-life-balance, parenting, in-laws, and other that cause you to not feel bonded
Get support and a sense of belonging when you question whether trust is really able to be repaired
What to do when he (or you) have a hard time opening up about his feelings and showing that he cares
And many other skills and tools to repair trust and solidify your bond forever...
Join Us As We Show You How To Reconnect With Your Husband Or Boyfriend Forever!
MOST IMPORTANT WEEKEND
- GAY Couples reTREAT -
SHOW ME HOW THIS WORKS
How This Unique Program Works
Results We’ve Helped Other Couples Achieve Since 2007:
We published our results in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy in October 2017.
The Gay Couples Institute is the only relationship center in the world, gay or straight, to transparently measure our techniques and determine whether we're effective at all.
The results were amazing. Relationship satisfaction scores of 106 studied couples at the Gay Couples Institute showed immediate rapid improvement in their relationship upon learning the skills taught in this program. More importantly, they were able to maintain those gains upon follow up.
This speaks ultimately to the abilities and inherent success of gay relationships, despite being oppressed minority in parts of the world.
Frequently Asked Questions
Receive Guidance Applying The Modules To Your Specific Situation
Meet Your Coaching Faculty...
Sam Garanzini, LMFT
I helped create the Gay Couples Institute with Alapaki in 2007 because we were saddened upon watching three of our closest friends break up after going to “couples therapy.” As professionals ourselves, we knew that the Gottman Method provided the most solid relationship-renewing material publicly available. I’ve made it my life’s mission to see gay relationships thrive, and have had so much fun seeing thousands of couples go through our coaching program.
Alapaki Yee, LMFT
I enjoy working at the Gay Couples Institute because I enjoy positively helping other gay couples with their relationship; that I had a small part to help them get along better, communicate better, maybe even last long term. I also use the skills I teach in my own relationship, so I know it works even if you don't get it perfect.
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You can get started today for a deposit of $237. If you're not satisfied with the program for any reason, we'll give you a full refund if we're notified before 3/1/18. The rest of the balance is due on 3/1/18, upon which all sales are final.
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