http://www.gaycouplesinstitute.org/blog/2009/04/24/infidelity-how-to-get-over-it-part-1/ Research Blog Wed, 08 Sep 2010 23:33:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.gaycouplesinstitute.org/blog/2009/04/24/infidelity-how-to-get-over-it-part-1/#comment-5584 David Sat, 14 Aug 2010 05:45:51 +0000 http://www.gaycouplesinstitute.org/blog/?p=45#comment-5584 Not necessarily. I cheated on my partner, and it caused a great breach in the trust. But we love each other, remained committed, and did a lot of work to heal the damage, and recovered from it. It did take time to restore the trust, but we were successful. We found that I cheated because certain of my needs were not being met in the relationship. They now are, and I no longer have any desire to cheat at all. The saying "once a cheater always a cheater" is not necessarily always true. Not necessarily. I cheated on my partner, and it caused a great breach in the trust. But we love each other, remained committed, and did a lot of work to heal the damage, and recovered from it. It did take time to restore the trust, but we were successful. We found that I cheated because certain of my needs were not being met in the relationship. They now are, and I no longer have any desire to cheat at all. The saying “once a cheater always a cheater” is not necessarily always true.

]]> http://www.gaycouplesinstitute.org/blog/2009/04/24/infidelity-how-to-get-over-it-part-1/#comment-2871 Joan Thu, 21 May 2009 18:42:35 +0000 http://www.gaycouplesinstitute.org/blog/?p=45#comment-2871 Please tell us all how in the world do you trust that person again. The marriage/partnership will never be the same. You spout that it will be better???? once a cheater always a cheater. Please tell us all how in the world do you trust that person again. The marriage/partnership will never be the same. You spout that it will be better???? once a cheater always a cheater.

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